“Each day a new beginning. I can choose to begin each morning with a sense of adventure. After all, today has never lived before! I don’t have to be a certain way every time” So, it is a Monday! A new day has come! Have you ever tried asking people what they think/feel about you? Try it if you haven’t already! You will be amazed at the answers you’ll get. People see the side of your personality that you only show them!
That I was quiet in secondary school, does not mean that I will be quiet for the rest of my life. People change based on the circumstances and experiences they are exposed to as they grow through life whether they like it or not. Someone asked me yesterday if I could mentor her and I answered in the affirmative and she said that she has always had the intention to send me a message but didn’t want to be embarrassed. Do I look mean? Or like someone who can shut people up? Look again!…. Anyways…perception.
All too often, our personality is nothing more than psychological clothing that we wear to hide our true self from the world. A very submissive wife will become violent and stubborn if she is always violated; you will now hear stuffs like “She was not like that before oh”…bla bla bla. “Personality is only ripe when a man has made the truth his own” So, ask yourself today….have you made the truth your own? That’s what let’s you know your personality? By the way, that saying has a book! PERSONALITY IS NOT PERMANENT by Benjamin Hardy. You can read it too.