Relationship with Self, Relationship with God, Relationship with Man.
As humans we must maintain these three relationships well to get the best out of Life and achieve the PURPOSE for which we are here. If you want a relationship that looks and feels amazing, you need to treat it like the most amazing thing in the world!
I’ll explain….starting with the most important according to me, SAL.
Relationship with SELF;
Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship that you have. Know and Love yourself enough to take the actions required for your happiness….enough to cut yourself loose from the drama-filled past….enough to set a high standard for other relationships….enough to feed your mind, soul and body in a healthy manner….enough to forgive yourself enough to move on.
You were born to be real and to FULFIL a PURPOSE not to be perfect. You are here to be you, not to be what someone else wants you to be. Stand up for yourself. Be committed to inner peace, expansion, gratitude and SELF LOVE.
RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD;
The PURPOSE of prayer is not to receive what you have asked for but to strengthen your relationship with God. Build the kind of relationship with God that even you can FEEL not just what people see you do; it’s not about how religious you look from the outside; it’s about your personal relationship with Him. The same God who answered the prayer of Moses, is still same….all you need is believe and submit TOTALLY to His will and He will always show up for you. I radiate a lot of love and confidence because of my relationship with God, I am not forceful or fearful because “a leaf never falls off its tree without His consent” so how can something be happening to me that He isn’t aware….so I just let him take control while I play my path by being obedient to His dictates as best as I can (I’m only human – He knows).
RELATIONSHIP WITH MAN (Generic);
No one perfectly loves God who does not perfectly love His creatures. The way people treat you is a statement about who they are as a human being. It is not a statement about you. I have had people think they are smarter when I am being supportive to their cause or businesses or ideas, they get an air and do not reciprocate by supporting mine but I have never for once regretted being a good person to the wrong people; my behaviour says everything about me and their behaviour says enough about them….the rest now depends on me if I can cope with that or not….I am the one who is responsible for my own happiness irrespective of what they bring forth. I am still friends with some people who are utterly greedy and self-centred, some who are back biters and back stabbers, destiny destroyers; but I still chose to make them friends because I also need them to grow….atleast I know, sometimes they do not even know that I know…..The very nice ones can not give me all the knowledge that I need to FULFIL the PURPOSE for which I was created and that’s why I am this FORTIFIED. Now that’s the spirit with every human relationships, the most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one’s relationship has a growing depth, beauty and joy as the years increase.
Now….internalize these and repair these three relationships in YOUR life. Again, Learn, Unlearn and Relearn.
May your dreams come true.